Don’t know why, but yesterday was a disaster for me. I was
almost dead. Don’t know I tried a lot to figure out the reason but I was just
not able to do it. Was it that I was rejected or was it that I lost a chance of
marrying a good girl. This is what happens to all when it comes to the mess of
arrange marriage.
So, to talk today topic is a arrange marriage. It’s a mixed
feeling of guy and girl to go ahead and meet the stranger. We don’t even know
who it will work as we just trust a CV and a photo of the person and go ahead
to meet. Both male and female has their own story attached before they come to
meet. At times we meet someone with a positive mind and sometimes we meet just
to close on a family formalities. We never realise that how saying “no” to the other
person can impact the though and life of that person. We all have our choices
and preferences and hence we all have rites to say a no, but do we realise how
much it can hurt the other person. I know we cant even say a yes to all. That’s
where are dislike the concept of arrange marriage, how can someone we don’t
know at all judge us in a matter of 45 mins and reject? are we so bad or are
they ppl rejecting so good ? if they are so good they should be the top HR of
the companies as they are able to understand the human behaviour so easily.
But I am sure, its sad for both, as both in al are wasting
45 mins of the life just to say a no or to hear a no. Now the brighter side to
it, when things happen to be yes, I think this will be the best part of it, it’s
a true marriage of families, ppl are happy and they celebrate the feeling to
the best.
